Your aim here is to demonstrate your fantastic personality and high value. Avoid doing what most guys do, which is to put the conversational burden on her with redundant questions and digging for commonalities. Your aim is to keep the conversation light, fun, and playful.
Don’t let yourself slip into interview type questions. When she brings up boring subjects don’t allow the conversation to go that way. Gently push the conversation in another direction, by saying something that has something to do with the topic, but is funny, light,and might bring back some kind of memory for her. Then, she might tell you the story .
When you're at the beach looking for a potential guy, you have to make yourself feel pretty and have the confidence to go up and talk to him
If the woman deciphers, even for a moment, that she has more value than you do, you’ll be blown out instantly. There are MANY techniques you can use to demonstrate your non-neediness, but for now the best thing you can do is detach from outcome. She’ll sense your non-needy attitude, and that should be enough to keep you safely beyond her threshold of value checking, and build up some mean attraction to boot.
